So did he take anyone with him? I know that you made him take your D with him the last time.
This is really so ridiculous. I think I will be praying for OW because she is very very very (I can't say very enough times) messed up. She is the source of all this now, before your H was in control, and granted he does have some control now, but he is allowing her all of it. She needs to be convicted of her sins or have some distraction in her life. That is what I will be praying. As well as a sickening in your H's stomach when he is with her.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."