Patti, I understand...this is such a hard time of year for all of us...
The best you can do is ask God to help heal your wounded heart and to ask him to enter into your H's heart. Ask God to restore your M better than it was before...
Love you,chick and I hate that you are hurting like this...
Smooches! Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller