Workingonit, I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a tough time of it tonight and I wish there was something great I could share with you to help.
All I can say is that I heard those exact words, " still loves me, but that we are both unhappy and he doesn't think it will get any better. " just four months ago, and I'm here to tell you that THINGS CHANGE.
If you get a chance or would even care to, please read my posts from today that are on the Newcombers board under JPsdevoted Wife's thread, "Help:Still devoted and trying to hold on" (or something like that).
We're still struggling, but we've come thousands of miles from those cold and painful words said to Me just this past April. Hugs 2U T2
