yes the odds are very high there is an OP!!...I think in many cases they are the devil incarnate I mean...jeeessshhhhh...WHAT kind of nice person gets involved with a married person and stays with them for months simetimes years while the wavering spouse stays married???? Nice people dont do that. needy, unstable dysfunctional people attract all sorts usually not nice caring ones either.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest