I agree--Sir, your kids need you now. It isn't about you needing them--and you do--but about them needing you and some balance in all of this. Your chances are far better than you realize, I'm sure. You don't have to attack her, you just need to actively defend yourself as a father. And you need to do it to protect them.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012