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If she was depressed when you met & then you had fun times together .... she gave you control of her own happiness.


Perhaps the best interpretation of what happened yet.

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on't let her control YOUR happiness, break free.


I know, I know.....I did my best to put on my happy face when I went to drop off my D. The best I could manage was more or less neutral. She was snappy though. She got upset that I didn't call first since I was bringing some of her stuff over.

It was funny, since I did feel a bit detached. I didn't react to her bad attitude, but remained even and calm....

I was dressed nicely and indicated I had somewhere to go. Talked her through a issue (in her head) re: my mom.

B4 I left, she apologised for being snappy.

I would be happy to read your thread and give you feedback. I will try to find it by going to your posts. May not write anything tonight though, I'm tired and getting ready for bed.

Last edited by native; 12/22/08 05:58 AM.

Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09