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Originally Posted By: kat727
Ex actually offered to help. Shock. He even commented what a sweet gift they were.

Don't know why he is kissing up and really don't care.
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Shoot, I do. Do you think he's realizing he made a mistake YET??? I know he's going to eventually!!!

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Well one strange thing I noticed when I saw skanks picture on fb, her status was single and my ex who was so distastefully flaunting his status as in a relationship, has changed his to single. Don't know if there is trouble in paradise but if he thinks he can jump from her boat to mine, he is sorely mistaken. This ship has sailed.

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Kat,
Can I say wow? Is your H finding out that the grass is not greener?!!! Just keep on being your strong sweet self!

I have a movie that I think you and Karen should get for movie night. My daughters rented it tonight. It's called "Women". I don't want to give away the plot so I'm not going to say much, but I think it's one that all of us women can relate to.

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I wanted to see that when it originally came out, but it does sound like a good movie night movie. I see you mentioned it to Karen. We will have to see what Miss Sunshine thinks! \:\)

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(((kat)))

Maybe Karma is taking over... Stay strong.


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Are you talking about The Women movie with Debra Messing (love her!) and Meg Ryan? I saw the preview for that on TV and it looked really funny, but relatable too. I put it in my queue a month ago. I need to return ours today so I can get that? What do you think, Kat? Karen


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Originally Posted By: kat727
Well one strange thing I noticed when I saw skanks picture on fb, her status was single and my ex who was so distastefully flaunting his status as in a relationship, has changed his to single. Don't know if there is trouble in paradise but if he thinks he can jump from her boat to mine . . .,


EXPECT it, Kat, and plan now, ahead of time, how you will calmly respond.

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Originally Posted By: kat727
Well one strange thing I noticed when I saw skanks picture on fb, her status was single and my ex who was so distastefully flaunting his status as in a relationship, has changed his to single. Don't know if there is trouble in paradise but if he thinks he can jump from her boat to mine, he is sorely mistaken. This ship has sailed.

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Sounds like trouble to me too. Ships can turn back though. What if he came to you and was 100% remorseful and more like he used to be pre-MLC? Actually willing to do actions to back up his words and all... Karen


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Too much speculating, I think.

I think you're playing it just right, kat.


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When do they ever do what you think they will? I have too much on my plate now to even think that way. I am going along the way I have been. I am trying to look forward and not backwards. I have this sometimes annoying(to others) habit of wanting to understand how things work, why this or that happened etc, I just can't keep looking back right now, I haven't healed enough to fully deal with it. Maybe someday.

I think it is because it is Christmas, end of story.

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