Since winter is far from over, how about you find a neighbor in your neck of the woods that will agree to a 'barter' type of set up? He would do the blowing/plowing when needed in exchange for some of your baked goods, or whatever else you could exchange for his time/effort. You said you had baked and made candy...I bet you could think of someone with near you that would come out and clear the road(s) for you in this type of weather. Some people would probably already like to help, but don't want to come out and ask if you need help because they're afraid of stepping on toes.
Your H needs to learn that there isn't anything that he can use as leverage against you..and that also means things he knows you can't do on your own. Even if you can't, you CAN find someone that will help you out in a pinch.
The weather here in the midwest is wicked. I don't remember it being this cold for a long, long time. If you have to go out again for anything, please protect your skin/lungs.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
