Explaining that you have become uncomfortable in the apartment with all FH's residue laying around and his well timed phone calls and text's when your there!!
I know the kids could be allies on this, but they are kind of young maybe to be involved with that. Maybe best to have that discussion when they're not around or can't hear you?
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Or even say to kids if asked again.....well now that FH has replaced me with your mother I don't feel right entering the apartment!!!
Well, something like that might be ok, I mean honesty and saying you feel uncomfortable in W's apt. I don't know that you need to give specific details or go into it any more than that. I've never been to my H's apt. once and don't plan to.
