Good Job!!! Has your wife asked you why you won't come in anymore? If not she might when you pickup the kids on X-Mas Eve?
Explaining that you have become uncomfortable in the apartment with all FH's residue laying around and his well timed phone calls and text's when your there!! Saying this while the kids are listening will put alot of pressure on their relationship around the kids. I can just hear your D7 say "mommy you need to stop bringing FH to the apartment"!!!
Or even say to kids if asked again.....well now that FH has replaced me with your mother I don't feel right entering the apartment!!!
