Ian, is it possible? I have to confess...I am not sure...new territory for me and I think I am stilla bit still high strung...and high maintenance...

I am still very prone----if I perceive one false step or innuendo---to say F OFF...so where does that put me?

Yeah....whole lotta work and growing needs to happen...maybe I am not ready for this step...

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller