How to know when to let go PT2????

[Tawnya]

{{{Kristi}}} Wow..you have hit the motherlode when you get Sandi giving you such wonderful words of advice..NOW..trust me, I know they seemed super HARD to hear and they are HARD to swallow, but she is absolutely right..that's why I stopped myself from going to text my hub after reading about yours and how well it went..LOL..cause it could just as easily have been crappy for me, if he answered at all..

Now..I am totally not at the point that Amy and Sandi talk about and so you know I totally understand how you feel. I remember the first time I texted my hub after this all happened and I had decided to send him a text for something..I think it was doing a love dare and I had to just ask him how he was doing and if he needed anything..I sent the text, thinking well he may or may not respond..he responded SO quick and my heart just SOARED..I was so thankful..and don't get me wrong, I was/am thankful he responded.

BUT, now just a month later, I think I would react differently, if I would text at all..because I know that I am worth at least a response, worth more than a response..LOL..I am worth him texting ME first..(of course I have to tell myself this stuff but I'm getting better about believing it)..and someone wrote in a thread once and I TRY to remind myself of this and I want YOU to think about this..about what YOU are worth/should be worth to your spouse. They said:

"Your husband should be willing to crawl thru broken glass to get back to you"

And it's true!

Tawnya