Hi native, Like many of the WAS, I think they are trying to find their happiness & don't know where it lies. If she was depressed when you met & then you had fun times together .... she gave you control of her own happiness. That is my H too. Be the best you can be to help her see, YOU are not the source of all her problems. Maybe, only some .... a few ....

All I can say is patience man .... and keep that PMA. Don't let her control YOUR happiness, break free.

BTW - if you or Dr Love have time - I would appreciate a mans perspective on my thread.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)