I really feel for you right now Nas, this must be so tough to take.
I don't really know what to tell you since I know nothing truly takes the pain away, but I'll try. At this stage total detachment might be a good idea. When my previous serious relationship broke down I actually moved overseas for a while and cut all ties, it helped a lot.
He keeps contacting you, so I would concentrate on getting all the business taken care of ASAP so that you no longer need contact. A third party to handle your business is actually a really good idea. Maybe tell him that he can no longer contact you directly and he has to go through someone you trust.
Sounds drastic, but what you are going through should not be taken lightly by anyone.
I know you are also angry and you have every right. Heck, I am even sitting here feeling angry about what he did to you and I don't even know either of you. Try not to focus on him. Do some nice things for yourself maybe. Music that gets you in touch with yourself, turn out all the lights and dance, call your friends and tell them you need to be around people that care about you, whatever it takes.
Just hang in there, keep posting here too, we are all behind you. Some strangers on the internet, but empathetic to your situation and feeling for you just the same.
SF
Last edited by spellfire; 12/22/0801:46 AM.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
