Standing on the Edge

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Msm,Drlove, thanks for checking in.

This is the first time I feel like she may be seeing someone. If it is truly 'just a friend' it is still inappropriate and I feel cheated on. I feel a whole lot of anger, which is normal obviously. If we did not have a precious little girl whose family is about to be destroyed, I would let her go her own stupid way.

We still have a shared password to our bankaccounts and I can see how she is spending her money. She went to a 'venue' for college age kids recently. Saw the pics they post online of the patrons and they are all college age.

I don't understand why my 32 yo wife wants to hang in place for college age kids. Unless of course her new 'friend' is around that age. Also, I'm beginning to think this has a large element of MLC to it.

She had a major crisis when she turned 30 and had to go out with her grad student friends (I came too)to several bars with a 20ish crowd. That night was a mess, she got sloppy drunk, could not stop. I scooped her up and put her in the car.

And I had planned a nice dinner, sidewalk cafe style dining, but she scorned that....thats for old people.....

If she is seeing someone, should I move over to the infidelity section, or just back to seperated? I don't think we are headed to piecing just yet.