I'm afraid Sandi is right. Tread very carefully - remember, as I also have to keep telling myself - NO EXPECTATIONS.
Sandi - you posted an excellent explanation of this very theory a few weeks ago to lovehimso. How can I find it again? I think it would also help Kristi. It was the first time I had ever read one of your posts and I've been following you ever since. It was all about not being the pursuer, making the man come after you, etc. It really woke me up to some things.
Stay strong Kristi!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
