Do you ever get so far apart that you know you don't want to go back to sharing everything? I mean that I do want an honest relationship but I don't think I can ever be as open as I was before.
I know this feeling. I was just thinking about it the other day. Maybe openness comes back as more trust comes back.
Anyway, I'm so glad to hear that H talked about you like that infront of all those people. These baby steps are interesting...but I totally understand your frustration at how slowly they come and at the spurts and then the great gaps in between them.