Because of all the wonderful advise that I have been receiving here I have decided to get my butt back into the game. I texted H asking him if he would like to come over for a beer yesterdat afternoon and shockingly enough within 5 minutes he responded. Not a yes but actually he thought I was asking in code for sex a nd joked with me about not being original. So I told him that I actually just wanted to see him since I haven't seen him in a month. He felt a little stupid lol, put a sad face and said he couldn't he had plans already. So at first I was a little upset because he said no but the positive is that 1. He responded right away and 2. he seemed sad that that he could not come.
I guess it must have stayed on his mind though because he began texting me at 3am while drunk and his friends were still there. Just random 'what are you doing?', 'Did you drink tonight?' stuff and asking if he could come over tomorrow (today). I haven't heard from him yet but I guess the night is not over yet, so we shall see.