I have heard a very similar story. It really hits home this time of year. But Jeff, I think there are plenty of people that do this all the time even though it doesn't involve money...right here. Think of our own puppy. He comes here all the time giving his no nonsense advise and he has been going through hard times of his own. Healing yourself involves reaching out.
It is going to take time. I am not fooling anyone. I still cry every now and then even though the husband I married is long since gone. He was a sweet naive man. Now there is just a fogged out alien in his body. I know reaching out helps. My C saw the difference in me in just a month! This forum and my friends here save me nearly every day.
I have no doubt in my mind that there is someone out there who will be there for me as I will be there for him. In the meantime and even after I will come here. God Bless Bryan Anderson.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory