Divorced but hoping to Reconcile

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L, You're going to have to be "just friends" before you can go further. If it follows the pattern that the DB C told me, you have to be friends, then you can introduce romance. Try not to let it get to you if she is saying those things. If you are consistent, you can build back her trust. But it will take time.

The hard part is going to be after she begins to respond to your romantically, because all the hurt and pain will then come out. If she shows interest, then you can consider counseling.