Excellent. I do believe that the mind does influence how we feel and in fact over time we can change how we feel. But it does take time.
It is not like saying "I am getting my hair cut today" and we make it happen.
Remember when you fell in love frank? I don't. It sort of snuck up on me. I did not decide "today I am going to fall in love with xxx". It just evolved over time. I cannot say what date it was or even when I really *knew*.
Same for *acceptance*. It evolves over time.
But the right mindset is needed as well and you are doing your best there. Keep going.
BTW, about the locks '25', I never said not to change them. I simply said check the local law rules first. I fully agree that some OM (a low-life at that) having possible access is not a good thing. I would also like to say that your posts are a good read and are helping me also.