Thanks MWG. I am sure he is stressed with the holidays. Another year for h away from his family. He will dissapear and not answer his phone during this time, then he will resurface after it's all over.
So sad that is how he wants to live. I find it very selfish behavior, but that's me.
I don't know how h is feeling inside. Trying to understand, but h is not willing to share much.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"