Just got back from a day of skiing with my W (weird) but somehow it worked out that she wanted to go and that we could. It was kind of spontaneous. The day was awesome we took some lessons together had lunch in the chalet and did a whole lot of laughing and joking. Not one argument. It was about an hour and a half of being in the car together each way but we chatted and listened to music. She still had to thow in the separated stuff but I just brushed it off. No OM "friend" talk either.
She thanked me for the great day now I am going to see my parents and take them out for dinner. So all the way around the weekend worked out.
Not sure if this little trip did anything to my W but it at least showed that we can have fun together and enjoy each others company. As I said before, now I go a little dark. I will pop by to her mothers at christmas for some free food and to see everyone then go to work. I won't pursue her or follow her around. I won't initiate contact and just mingle with everyone else. She tossed out that if we wanted we could do a little stocking for each other but no presents. HMMMMM? Thanks for the boost about OM it helped to put him out of my mind at least for the day.
Cheers Jeff
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
