It's Complicated!

[glamgirl]

MWG I am trying to figure this all out. He has OCD obsessive compulsive disorder. Not an extreme case, but he has signs. I do have some of that myself too.

He has always been on the controlling side. I guess I was a bit blinded in the m and really didn't notice the control issues. They really seem to be coming out now.

Like yesterday I was going to take public transport to get my hair done and h says NO Glam just cancel the appointment. It's not that important. Which he was right and it ended up being cancelled anyway, but he always seems to want to control what he does and me as well.

I have asked him to forgive me. Well we can see that has happened. He seems to be holding a grudge. Not sure if he has always been like that.

I big part of this whole issue is that his image has been tarnished. He feels let down and betrayed by me for telling others. I don't blame him, but you either need to decide to forgive or move on.

I don't think he knows how to forgive. He says he is healing and trying to figure it all out. He is always so vague as to what he is talking about. Figure all what out?

He said if he knew how to fix it he would. He said he doesn't know how.