As for your husband and his being very upset with you.
Does he hold grudges? I would say that you probably would ask for his forgiveness and considering that he left all of you, there is a good amount of anger that comes out initially.
I would like to know if he thinks that you all should accept all he has done (leave all of you, etc) and that it is what it is type thinking and don't question him.
GG: Was he always this controlling with you before this NLCstuff began?
Just trying to figure out why he is so quick to blame you and hang on to the past and grudges. I suspect he is a very unhappy man.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19