Ahhhh, I got kin in that body!

[AliSuddenly]

Hey T!

I had a revelation today, and thought of you, then saw Lisa's excellent post.. she highlighted wheh you said...

now I feel like I totally blew it by trying to push to see him sooner, like I thought I was accelerating the process (DUH, BAD IDEA)

Remember my hideous head-in-hands-oh-god-beam-me-up-Scotty-nightmare in a layby with my ex? 3 weeks ago? And I said the exact same thing... oh god, I've gone and blown it now, he wont want to see me, I have pushed him further away...and you pointed out to me, maybe not...

THEN...I get a very very sweet hour long phonecall AND a pressie and card in the post!! So I didnt 'blow it' with this one awkward moment, but I am blown away by what he did. So.. you never really know what they're thinking.

Like Lisa says, look at the overall pattern and that is in your case, pretty positive. I too was impressed he said he wanted to keep things enjoyable BUT that he wanted to see you still in January.

Love and hugs, Al xxx