No - not expectations but realizations that OW must be so fabulous that H no longer spends time with his own children. He went from exceptional father to nothing. A few hours here and there with them is sufficient for him now.
OW will be such an embarassment to my children. H does not realise that people will laugh behind his back at him when he starts being seen with her. ( it has happened ). They will be polite but they will be laughing at him.
My need to protect them by making some changes in our lives , now requires my attention. Thank you again. Jane
