All your NEED's need to be put on hold right now. Make it all about HER.
...Unless of course it was meant to say that your needs REGARDING HER AND THE MARRIAGE need to be put on hold. Your OTHER needs are paramount right now.
YES! I did not articulate properly. Thanks Bworl for the clarification.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712