I said "look, I really don't care what your issues are with D17. I don't care who you are sleeping with either. I know that our D's do not want to be exposed to OM, Just send D13 home by 10 pm."
The underlined part sure sounds like the little boy to me.
I think you probably know that.
Frank, I think you're turning to anger to help you force her out of your heart. Just be careful. Anger is difficult to control once we let it out. As Jeff said, this is a process. It would be nice to be able to just make a rational decision to move to the next step, but our heart does not always work just like that.
It's ok to feel whatever it is that you're feeling. It's ok to be wherever you happen to be emotionally right now.
The trick is to allow the emotional state to be what it is, but NOT allow that state to keep you from moving forward without spending all your time looking back.
And remember, the Alpha male is not an ass. The Alpha male does not need to be an ass. He knows what needs to be done and he does it.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
