M, there are similarities with our lady friends....minus the XH...but i also think she deserves to be treated nice....i just do not want to be the rescuer. Don't get me wrong i love being nice but like I said i am in the uncertain stage....
yep..I know what your are saying. I am very wary of sweeping in and trying to fix things..MHS38 is a very independent lady. She is not very trustworthy of men due to being burned badly by XH and a previous interest she had. We are taking things slow..very slow and having a good time..
One thing you can buy her that won't be over the top but she will like is...some type lotions, bath oils, most women love things like that...bath and body has lots of gifts sets..all kinds of lotions..The only reason I bought what I did was because I've known her for 9 years..