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Originally Posted By: lost_in_space

W: actually I am going out. I made my plans before you did.

Me: I have to go grab my cmpt

W: I made plans and you have to stay home.

Me: oh I see - all about you eh?

W: yup this time it is.



2 words...GROW UP! She amazes me and not in a Sigfried and Roy, Chris Angel Mindfreak way. In a sad, shaking your head, call Brittany Spears' therapy team way. Has she considered medication? Copious amounts of anti-psychotics may be just what the Dr. Ordered. (((((LOST)))))


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((((S&S))))

Immaturity is showing in so many ways. There may be more truth to the meds part as well - she may indeed need something. But really a few good kicks in the azz wouldn't be bad either!


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Man oh man Lost. I haven't had much time to be on here lately and I just caught up.

I'll give you a line I used with my W when I got the IAAYII (that's: It's all about you isn't it).

I just calmly replied, "No, if it was all about me, I'd have been gone a long time ago. In fact, I'm the only one thinking about everyone BUT myself".

Of course, I got the "yeah, whatever" response.

After reading through this though, I have to ask the question. Are you still trying to bust a divorce or are you ready to be done with this chit?


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Hey there. Haven't talked in a while.

I am waffling sometimes. Some days I just want this to be done and over. It really sucks, but them we all know that.

But then I see my k's and think about them, and I am back to wanting to bust this.

Yes I still have the feelings I need for my W, but these are getting dustier by the day.

I've been at this for a year, so a few more months won't hurt. But I am done taking all the BS so my DB'g may show a few kinks at times.

Should also add that certain things are only starting to come into play, like the IL factor now that they know of the A and financial disclosures. Have to see the impact of these if any.

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Originally Posted By: Hope4us


I'll give you a line I used with my W when I got the IAAYII (that's: It's all about you isn't it).

I just calmly replied, "No, if it was all about me, I'd have been gone a long time ago. In fact, I'm the only one thinking about everyone BUT myself".


Oh, DAMN, that's good. REALLY good.

We all need to write a book or somethin'.

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That IS a really good line..may have to use that one myself \:\)

{{{LIS}}} Ugh..another day at the carnival eh?? Hope you can have a good one anyway my friend \:\)

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{{{LIS}}}} Just checking in to see how you are doing!

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(((Tawnya)))

Thanks for checking in. I am doing alright. Am finding this time of year particularly difficult, but I am sure many are.

Keep my mind focused on kids. Last night for example, W went out with EGF. So S13, D11, friend of S13 and I all played Risk. Had a blast really.

This whole thing makes me with the sense of entitlement W has. Really don't get that, but I guess not that I am supposed to.


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[quote=lost_in_space
This whole thing makes me with the sense of entitlement W has. Really don't get that, but I guess not that I am supposed to. [/quote]It's the whole me, me, me, thing. Are the WAS innately just selfish people or is it a phase? Don't know.... Karen


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Yep my hub is definitely going thru a "selfish phase too"..I liken it to being a teenager again when the world is all about "me me me"..

{{{LIS}}} I know it is a sucky time of year and I will be glad when the next few weeks are over!! \:\)

RISK..WOWOW..I haven't played that in FOREVER..I loved that game when I was younger..hey..who wouldn't love getting to take over the world..world domination \:\) Psst..who won?

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