Divorced but hoping to Reconcile

[FaithfulH]

LNMW,
Look at this:

I am definitely here for the long haul and refuse to give up on my wife. I know that I still have work in proving myself trustworthy, but that's okay. She is worth the wait and this process is definitely making me a better person.

...and compare it to this:

Ultimately, this is an all or nothing thing for me. While I will have to always interact with my wife due to our daughter, I wouldn't want to be friends with my wife if there wasn't going to be any hope of reconciliation.

The former is what will bring you together. The latter...a defeatist, selfish,"I won't give her what she wants unless she gives me what I want" attitude. You ARE in this for the long haul and 99% of the time your attitude reflects it. Now, just work on the 1%! I am excited for what is happening in your family!!! LNMW, the hard work you are doing now will reap huge dividends for your whole family later!