Morning Namesake, I agree with the very good advice of everyone above. The OW will yo-yo all of you until you have some legal standing that says she can't. Encourage your H to start working on that.
Now, speaking of sports....did anyone watch the Spartans yesterday? Great basketball! Go green!!
Well, I have a Christmas celebration with my parents today. I have nothing ready, so I have to start doing something.
Everyone stay warm and safe. Keep breathing and let the Lord bring you peace.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.