LOL Future Girl! I'm exactly the same- everything is fine until a RL friend mentions H, and then I get a lot of 'you should move on', 'don't let him treat you like this', blah blah blah! They don't really get DBing! YAY on figuring it out, and how frustrating for H to not follow up. *sigh*
How exciting to be on the boards together!! Did you see my CEO pic on FB, BTW?