I have been reading your posts. You sound like you are doing amazingly. I always think that detaching is like riding a bike... someone could describe how to balance for hours, but its not until you are up and riding that you 'get it'. And of course there are always a few speed wobbles, but I think you've got it and I'm so pleased for you.
Any more progress on kiwi boy from choir? (sorry i love a bit of goss!)