Good job Frank. You are standing tall and not getting dragged into the drama.

It would be so nice if your W does go through the divorce with guilt and does not fight it. My mother divorced my father to live with OM when I was 16 and my brother 14 and she only wanted her car. My brother and I stayed primarily with my father. I believe what is best for your daughters is for them to have primary residence with you as you provide stability, respect and honor for them to live by.

Please see a lawyer once you get the papers.