See my biggest fear is that if I stay calm and dont say anything? I am condoning his behavior. Even though I am not. in essence. I am allowing him to keep his sh*t and take the blame all on his own. An emotional tirade will not show him the error of his ways it just makes me look like I am a crazy b*tch. Hmm? But my heart is stubborn. * deep breath* I can do this. Also this is just the beginning,,,,, FOO issues may get thick and heavy once we get to our Destination. * insert eyes rolling in the back of my head here* His Foo stuff is almost coming out at the seams right now. Remember how was on the outs w/ his Family? Yuck~ But I am going to do my best to smile thru this, and be happy and strong. WAaaaaaaaaaay easier said than done.