I think you are right about her testing me. Later this evening she asked me why is it that she is the one that does all the calling and why I don't call her up more often. That comment brighten my day. I told her that I didn't want to risk interrupting her beauty sleep. About a month or two months ago I made it a point to not call my wife up but to let her take the lead as I didn't want to be seen as pursuing. Its good to see that it is beginning to pay off and I will begin to slowly be more pursuing.
Also, today she called me up and told me that she and her best friend are thinking about selling the house (keep in mind that they haven't been in it that long). She told me that she wants something smaller. She then tells me that her best friend asked her if I would be willing to have him transfer his portion of the loft over to me. She then tells me that she is not sure at this point. I simply responded that I would support her in whatever decision she made. I think right not that idea is just a thought but I was glad I was calm and collective in spite of how happy that made me.
I am definitely here for the long haul and refuse to give up on my wife. I know that I still have work in proving myself trustworthy, but that's okay. She is worth the wait and this process is definitely making me a better person.
