From what I've read (and I've read a LOT about MLC), and OP doesn't have to be part of it, but it's been my experience that there pretty much always is an OP in some form.

My H and I had only ever been with each other. Never even dated anybody else. Both of us pretty shy introverts. I believed H up until my S17 told me the truth (which H had given to him in a drunken confession). \:\(


TJ

Me45,H49
D24,S18
M26,T28
Bomb 3/19/08
Sep 6/23/08
EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8
3/2009 H moved in w/OW2
7/2009 Let him go w/Love.
8/2009 Legally Sep'd