Addie, the kids are aware that there mom has been seeing a guy. I don't think that would be an issue. I just don't want to get IL40 a gift yet. She is nice but i am not convinced about the long term viability yet....better this way...one day at a time. Time to call the teacher I think. The evening went well but I think K suggested that I see a few people, just to see what is out there. So all in all a nice evening, even though little John was ready, the coach did not put him in. Oh well...there is always next week. You win some, you lose some and some days it rains so you don't play!