I found these things tonite. I am not saying stay and suffer more. I just thought I would share. I have read his book. Dr Stosny "You don't have to take it anymore." And I am re~ reading it in my hotel room. Fun huh? Stosny~ Read this please..... Compassion power.com Take care.... I think some of the stuff on there .. may help you heal and sort your feelings out. Just my 2 cents ... K? Love, Ava