Thanks man I won't say anything, had a pretty good night we just had her mother, sister and sisters husband over for a birthday dinner for her mom. We joked and laughed and my W even brought up some funny stories about me from the past.
We are now going skiing in the morning, I am looking forward to it because I like the out doors. She is excited because she just bought an overpriced ski suit. She made some jokes about it was weird that we are separating but we are going skiing together. I just said no pressure we are going just to have fun.
Not sure what to make of it but I am trying to show her that we can have fun together.
The only thing that pissed me off was that she called her "friend " in front of me to tell him about her new suit. She did tell him that I was going skiing with her. I said nothing and she said I know you don't like him but he is my friend. Again I gave her no reaction. Either she was trying to push more buttons or trying to show me that they are just friends (whatever).
I am to the point if nothing happens I am fine with being by myself at least I won't have to hear about her "friend". My plan is to go skiing have fun then back off for a bit and see what happens.
Thanks Jeff
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