Wish I had a dollar for each time I said that. We will 'get it' when we no longer need to crash. If you crash, you don't get it by definition. It is AVOIDING the crash that is key.
Good. We need to be sad. That helps us heal.
I'm serious this time. I crashed, W is being a jerk. Daughters are coming to me for healing.
Tonight, W had a 'banquet' at 'her house'. She invited D17 and D13. What she didn't tell them was that OM (aka 'the little boy') would be there.
D17 didn't want to go for 'dinner' but flet she should go to at least 'say hello'.
When she told her mom this, she said that there weren't any seats at the table for D17 and her BF. D17 told her that she only wanted to come by to say hello. As it was told to me by D17, her mom said there wasn't a place for her to sit so she couldn't come by.
Not sure what the truth is, but D17 hung up on her mom and was very upset.
I gave her some money to go out and have a nice dinner with her boyfriend. She said I didn't have to, but I told her she was welcome to a nice dinner.
I don't know the exact truth, but I do know that W rarely thinks of her daughters needs.
