SingleDad: It is sad - the positive is this: for whatever reason, the odds have been tilted heavily in my favor. It would be almost impossible for me to not get 50% or full custody - I prefer 50% because I want kids with their Mom. I am well protected financially mostly because W made several statements that our marriage ended previously, that our marriage is just a piece of paper. Hurtful statements, but in Ohio, they stand up in court!
She doesn't know this, but she will get very little, will get no part of my business I own, etc - really really screwed, but you know, you make your bed, you lie in it!
I have the kids now over half the week, and love every minute of it!
