Tawyna, Thanks for your comments, and stopping by! I went and read up on some of your history. Your have been through so much more than me, and handled it so much better, I feel sort of sheepish.
I could only find the thread on your signature though?
Anyway, yeah, it stinks - I almost feel like I'm starting over. Although I will absolutely follow the divorce through to completion, I hope I won't have to.
I'll be honest - I have not, up to this point, actually and completely started DBing honestly, and I can see fruit already - although my situation seems like the worst it's ever been.