Wow....what an interesting day. I don't know what to think. D13 and I went out shopping. She was hungry for lunch and chose a place that H likes. I told her (since she had not seen him in a few days) that if she wanted to call him to join us that it would be ok with me. She did ....and of course he came.
He arrived (hair dyed a new shade....gotta get those greys out) and looking down in the dumps. We ate and made small talk and a few times he just stared out into space. The dramatic affect...for me.
Anyway, when we left he said to me that he sent me a tm while at the restaurant and to read it when I got to the car. It asked me to call him when i was not with d13. Well she and I were out shopping for hours (it was so crowded....due to the snow storm yesterday) when I got home I tm'd him instead of calling since he was at work.
I told him to call me when he could or after work. Well he tm'd me instead. He said he got some test results from the dr. and they were not . He needs to see a specialist and asked if I could keep him on my insurance.
Well of course I told him I would. He offered to pay the difference....and I will make sure he does. But in the back of my mind I can't help but think this is B.S. just to keep him covered for a while. I guess that I am getting so accustomed to the lies that I don't know if H is capable of telling the truth.
He just tm'd me telling me that he was sorry he had to ask. How he hated to have to ask and that if I wanted him to figure something else out he would. UGH. Such drama.
Anyway, I don't know what is wrong with H. He didn't say. I also don't know if he realizes that my company will not keep him covered if we are D. We have a self-funded plan and it has a policy.
So, I totally don't know what to believe. My insurance is good enough for him but I am not. Part of me wants to just tell him a piece of my mind and to go figure it out with MOW....and another part of me is sympathetic......UGH.
So Snodderly, "mom" to the rescue again. He can't seem to cut those apron strings.
