H just moved out, 13 months post-bomb

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Dawn... no, you vent away! Thats what the boards are here for.

I want you to know that my ex had NO ow...we had never had a cross word, were still very emotionally connected in fact.. and when he moved into his flat in Jan, he wouldnt tell me where he was living either !! Shocking! I cant believe I went on so long and let him NOT tell me... eventually, he gave me the address, sort of inadvertently, on top of his CV.. in May. But this was a measured choice to finally reveal it as when I later said "I dont know where you live" he said, yes you do.. it was at the top of my CV. !

He never did invite me there though, over the past YEAR, despite my hints. He finally relented to let me drop him off outside the apartments in July, but only as he had missed the last train. I've never been inside.

So.. no, you;re not alone and I considered us to have a very close friendship still. Its madness isnt it!???

Also.. of course its hard to remain positive in the face of what has happened to you.. I dont thikn you should say you are negative (perhaps thats negative in itself!), but its just normal! Its been a really tough year, for many of us, I know it has been for me. Dont beat yourself up, you've had alot to bear and you are amazing Dawn as you have borne it and with grace...

Al xxx