Thank you so much for plodding through that very very long post. And thank you for being so supportive.
I am still letting the events sink in and trying to process everything. More thoughts come to me as this happens and I will post them as they come.
After today's conversation it seems to me that H is really having a mid-life identity crisis. He is really struggling to find what makes him happy and whole. I think that is causing some depression but he looked pretty good today. Still very thin but not as bad as I had feared.
I also think he is understandbly skeptical of the "new" me. He is curious about the source of the changes. I know he must have as much to think about as I have.
