I know what it's called, and I am sure SMW does, too.
Still, and it is JMO, every sitch involves feelings, so sarcasm doesn't always help, and perhaps I took this a little personally because your post came right after ST and I were trying to show some understanding towards not just SMW herself, but towards her DH as well. The reference to it being a dilemma seemed as though you were saying a big deal was being made out of nothing.
Feelings are not nothing, and if SMW feels the need to defend herself, whether she really needs to or not, she should be able to do that.
Again, JMO.
(((SMW)))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
