I agree GG - she needs to be on her own. I don't know if she will have regrets, but she needs to be independent now. it will be good for me, and good for her, too.

The attack on my character is strange, but I try to not be hurt by it. There is a lot of "water under the bridge" so to speak, so this is nothing new to me.

The problem is if the attack succeeds, I stand to lose my children. Which is a very sad but very real prospect for me.

The burden of proof in family court is much lower than criminal court, but yet for me, the impact can be life-changing.